No, we do not require testing for our guests. However, we strongly encourage all our guests to engage in open and honest discussions with their healthcare providers about their sexual health and the preventative measures they can take. This includes exploring options like Doxycycline Post-Exposure Prophylaxis (Doxy PEP) and Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP), which are proven strategies for preventing STIs and HIV transmission.

In light of ongoing public health concerns, we also recommend that our guests consider vaccination against COVID-19 and MPox (formerly known as monkeypox) as part of their health preparedness. While not required for entry, vaccination is highly recommended to protect yourself and others in the community.

For more information and resources on sexual health, prevention methods, and support, we recommend visiting the Cascadia AIDS Project at Cascadia AIDS Project. This organization offers a wealth of knowledge, support services, and guidance for those looking to learn more about maintaining their sexual health and well-being.

Nope, it's not just about getting down and dirty. Picture this: a party atmosphere electrified with excitement, where guests are mingling, laughing, and simply soaking up the club vibes. We've got top-notch DJs spinning sick beats, and there's no shortage of activities to keep you entertained. But here's the kicker: you don't have to jump into the action if you're not feeling it! Yup, you heard that right. You can kick back, enjoy the scene, and have a blast your own way. It's all about choice and having a blast at my parties!

As long as it looks like you tried, that’s all that matters. Sanctuary and Candy are upscale, elegant event venue and nightclub. Please check event descriptions for specific dress codes, if any. Guests should dress presentably and appropriately for the venue and for the event they’re attending.

We don’t know you so how can we tell you what to expect? This gathering space for a large and diverse sex-positive community. Sanctuary and Candy are anti-racism and celebrates diversity. We offer a full bar, lounge seating, dance floor, open play areas, dungeon furniture, an an irreverent atmosphere.

Most of my events, outside of Hyde and Portland Vice, have indeed been marketed intentionally as a safe space for those who identify as men and enjoy gay sex, I want to make it abundantly clear that everyone is welcome. Sanctuary is a space of inclusivity and diversity, and we firmly believe in creating an environment where all individuals can feel safe and celebrated. Sanctuary is also the ONLY sex club in town that’s not a bath house that has gay events.

We do not discriminate based on gender, sexual preference, race, ethnicity, age, ability, relationship status, or identity. My aim is to foster a community where everyone, including women, trans, and non-binary folks, can explore and enjoy the unique atmosphere our events provide. In fact, we have received a lot of positive feedback from women who have attended our events, sharing that they had a fantastic time. Trans and non-binary individuals are absolutely welcome and integral to the diverse community we cherish.

Door fees vary by event, check our event calendar for pricing. Sanctuary and Candy welcome all gender identities and relationship configurations. Our door fee is per person, everyone pays the same price.

All my parties are held at venues that serve alcohol and require attendees to be 21 years of age or older.

CONSENT: A clear and unambiguous agreement, expressed outwardly through mutually understandable words or actions, to engage in a particular activity. Consent can be withdrawn by either party at any point.

RESPECT

Unless invited, keep a respectful distance from play

“No” means “No” (see CONSENT)

Touch AFTER invited (see CONSENT)

Know your boundaries and state them clearly

KINDNESS

Don’t be a dick

Speak well of others

Do not be disruptive

Make introductions, create community

WATER BASED LUBE ONLY!

I prioritize the safety, comfort, and enjoyment of all our guests. To ensure that everyone has a positive and safe experience, we have established a set of rules that outline activities which are not permitted. These rules are designed to protect the well-being of our community and to maintain an environment that respects everyone's boundaries and preferences.

Strictly Prohibited Activities:

Fire Play: Any activities involving open flames or fire are not allowed.

Blade Play: The use of knives or sharp instruments in play is forbidden.

Breath Play: We do not permit any activities that involve restricting airflow.

Water Sports: Activities involving urine play are prohibited.

Scat Play: Any play involving fecal matter is strictly forbidden.

Blood Play: Activities that involve bloodletting or the exposure of blood are not allowed.

Food Play: We do not permit activities that incorporate food into play.

Fighting: Physical altercations or fighting of any kind is strictly prohibited.

Weapons: The possession or use of weapons is not allowed within our events.

Race Play: Any activities that involve racial humiliation or stereotypes are strictly forbidden.

These guidelines are in place to ensure that our events remain a safe and welcoming space for everyone. We ask all our guests to respect these rules and each other’s boundaries. Our community thrives on respect, consent, and understanding. Should you have any questions or need clarification on any of the rules, our staff are always available to assist.

No. We have cubbies for our guests’ personal items. Or you can place them in coat check.

Yes, we accept all major credit cards. We also have an ATM if you prefer to use cash.